Poonam Pandey's figure too distracting for men or being overlooked?

Poonam Pandey, in case you haven't heard of her, born on 11th March 1991, is an Indian model and a self-proclaimed cricket fan. The New Generation Girl in Mumbai and the most downloaded model on internet on her Twitter Bio. She trips nude if blue team wins makes worldwide trending and has frequently made the headlines for all the wrong reasons. Who recently attack by bullies despising her for being "too hot".

Yes, according to her statement, the Kingfisher model shares her insights on World Cup 2011 were so overwhelmed by her looks that she was ‘Woman of every Hour ‘for dressing too sexily, was flooded of offers about from some of her skimpy bikini and was then ask to act in Hollywood

While she claims she wore modest fashion clothing and did nothing to provoke the male reaction, men in India around her couldn't seem to keep it in their pants. A spoofy blogger gave the 19-year-old single model a long list of clothing items that she would not be allowed to wear, which included Burkha, turtlenecks, pencil skirts, fitted suits and three-inch heels. (Burkha is too sexy? Really?!)

$37 million for alleged sexual harassment, it leads me to wonder whether women are really that distracting for men in the social networks. Can men really not control themselves when faced with a beautiful woman? Or do women simply dress too provocatively , flirt too much for comfort, embraced sexuality or branding publicity?

Sure, men think about sex every seven seconds (or every hour, or every day, depending on what survey you read). In my previous article ‘What Bloody Hell Men Are Thinking’? "If you don't understand us, there's something wrong with you," one wise man often tells me. "We're basically one step up from a caveman."

And sure, men are distracted by revealing clothing (especially on Twitter while driving). And yes, according to scientific research, men get more stupid in the presence of beautiful women and they tend to lose their minds in the face of ample cleavage, spicy bedunkadunk and a pair of skinny legs. But is it really that hard for them to keep it to themselves? ANTM model and mentor Tyra Banks creates urban dictionary for butt popping called- booty tooch. Men misread ‘Beauty Touch”.

According to a poll I carried out of men in my dating, adult and social websites, 100 per cent of them answered with a resounding "yes". Apparently it really is that difficult for the male species to practice a little self control.

"You've got to be prudent these days," said one. "It's a struggle contain the excitement," said another. And third guy replied with this: "Unless you're under video surveillance or a homosexual, it's impossible not to stare and sometimes even do something about it!"

While women (especially the wives and girlfriends) have long expressed about men perving on the opposite sex, how far is too far when it comes to women dressing provocatively? And what actually is provocative dressing?

According to American Justice Potter Stewart's famous quotation, the answer is simple: "I know it when I see it."

Yet, an old axiom holds that it's a woman's fault line if she dresses way too provocatively and "If it's not for sale, don't advertise."

I wonder, therefore, as a single girl in a world in which advertising centres on flaunting sexuality, what is appropriate? What is sexually appealing? And what would lead a man to view you as "easy" rather than someone he wants to date?

For Indian culture, the best outfit a woman can wear isn't something that "advertises" all her bits, but rather a simple, casual toned- Burkha.

"I think I attract the wrong sorts of men," I whispered.

And that Poonam Pandey perhaps says it all..
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